I try my best to update this missive every ten days to two weeks as I find that timing usually provides the right amount of material – enough to write home about but not so much as to make the effort a chore. This last three weeks, however has been so packed with commitments that I have had no time to sit down and type this out, and the longer I have waited the more daunting the task has become. In recent years I have adopted the philosophy (my apologies to Rhett for miss-using the word) that the best way to solve a problem is to address it promptly and to completion. So here we go.
My last post was on September 11. On the twelfth I departed my site for training provided by Peace Corps/PEPFAR that was in two tracks. One track was in Life Skills Training which is principally focused on training people to train Junior High and High school students in techniques to safely navigate the HIV infected waters of youth and young adulthood in the era of the AIDS pandemic. The second track was in Perma-Gardening which provides techniques for sustainable family and community gardening of vitamin rich foods which are by and large absent from the local diet and necessary to improve the health of a population whose current life expectancy is only 49 years and declining due to an upsurge in diet related hypertension and diabetes. The gardens can also provide IGAs (Income Generating Activities) for the NPOs with which most of us work. I was invited to ask two people from my organization to participate, one for each track, and I was to choose a track for myself. I invited one of the carers from one of the small villages to attend the Life Skills track. She is a dedicated young woman and accomplished public speaker who already leads a group of the girls in the village in a traditional dance and song club. She also has better English than most and I felt would learn the material and actually put it to use. I also knew that she had never been to one of the Peace Corps/PEPFAR sponsored events, which are generally held at nice (though not exorbitant) resort type venues with all meals provided, and would have a great time. As much work as she does she more than deserved the perk. The other spot was taken by my supervisor, though I had lobbied hard to have it go to the Chairperson of the Board of Directors who is a member of the Pensioners’ Association that is officed in the same old school as my organization and which has a gardening activity which I felt could benefit from the Perma-Garden training. My manager however made it clear that he was going even though he has been the one to go to all the other trainings and has no apparent use for gardening.
As at the time to book transportation to the workshop funding for the organization’s activities, though approved, had not yet been received, I paid for bus tickets for the three of us out of my meager stipend against reimbursement during the training which was to be received by the 17th. I bought the tickets on line (the busses often get fully booked in advance) and picked them up when I got to the bus station with my carer. My manager was to meet us there as he travels from a different village. About 10 minutes before the scheduled departure there was no appearance by my manager so I called him to make sure he was on his way. When I reached him he told me he had decided not to go. There was apparently no thought that this was information I might like to know. The bus company does not give refunds, only credit for future travel, but I was lucky in that a young woman who had to be in Pretoria had failed to book a ticket and was still there when I realized I had an extra. The clerk was nice enough to put us together and I was able to sell the ticket at face value. I was, and still am more than a little upset that the training opportunity was wasted, as I know the chairperson wanted to go. The board has brought the matter to the manager’s attention, for which I am glad. Unfortunately, I doubt that Peace Corps/PEPFAR was as lucky as I as far as recouping their financial commitment is concerned.
The training was at the RoodeVallei Country Lodge resort in the Northeastern outskirts of Pretoria. It is a lovely place with great rooms and beautiful grounds overlooking the river and the adjacent game reserve. There are more birds of different species than I have ever seen in one place outside an aviary and the food was very good. If they could find a decent bartender, my praise would be unqualified. This seems to be a common problem in SA. We are still looking for an ordinary gin or vodka Martini, having given up entirely on anything more sophisticated or fashionable. There is money to be made here for a barkeep who knows his or her stuff.
The trainings were very good as well, much better than some that we have had, and everyone was enthusiastic and enjoyed themselves. My counterpart informed me that she was enjoying herself so much that she did not want to leave when that day came, and I was very happy when she came into the office a week later with a letter of appreciation from her village High School where she had already started a Life Skills program for grades 8 – 12. She will be starting another at a neighboring school as well. In the end, it seems that Peace Corps/PEPFAR’s money was well spent. It was wonderful to get together with most of the SA23 gang and we had a lot of afterhours fun including a “wedding” in honor of the 2nd Anniversary of a couple in the group (with yours truly officiating) and a rousing trivial contest which my team did not win only because of a tactical error in not going for double or nothing which resulted from my lack of confidence in my (correct) answer naming the capital of Ghana. As it was, anyone who wanted to could participate in the grand prize – shaving the head of one of the female volunteers who is in a particularly hot site and who has recognized that long hair and bucket bathes are incompatible.
We returned to site on the Saturday the 17th. I got back to my house at about 4 in the afternoon. I had promised one of the carers that I would attend a service of the Exodus Apostolic Church, of which she is a member, that evening at her home. The service was to start at 10pm and run continuously, more or less, until sometime Sunday afternoon or evening. I was prepared to make the half hour walk to her house where the service was to take place at about 9:30, but my host family would not hear of it as the route leads past at least two “taverns” which by 9:30 on a Saturday night can be pretty rough and tumble. They insisted that it would not be safe for me to be walking alone through the village at that time and urged me to get there before sundown and just hang out until the service started. I ultimately agreed to do that, not so much because I feared the human element, but because with all the goats giving birth we have had packs of dogs coming out of the remote areas to try to feed on the kids. The fights between our 4 yard dogs – you may recall Bobby, Blackie (formerly Black Dog), White Dog and Big Head) and these marauders have been brutally fierce of late and wake me up every couple of nights. I got to “Daisy’s” house just as the sun was setting and found that a large group of her family had already arrived. The cow had been slaughtered and the cooking that would go on for the next 20+ hours had started. I was “treated” to supper of a plate of pap (maize meal porridge) and some of the “good meat”, tripe and intestine, served cold and flavored with ash. Yum Yum! I ate what I could, favoring the pap.
My early arrival turned out to be a benefit as Daisy’s grown children who are educated and speak English well were there from out of town. They were able to tell me a little about the event. I also met one of the 5 or so “pastors” that would be presiding over the service who filled in additional details. Seems that Daisy’s husband has been “troubled” of late, the nature of the trouble being undisclosed and unimportant, and the church had been called upon to gather in aid of the family by beseeching God to cure the troubled soul. The Exodus Apostolic Church is a local branch of a small, very African, church that apparently is based in Zimbabwe; at least that is where the pastor I talked to was from. Pastors from other Apostolic Churches in the area were in attendance to assist, and the members of the church and much of the family were there to add voice to the prayers and songs, beat drums and blow whistles. The service itself is conducted in a large tent and started at about 11pm when the members of the church marched down the streets drumming and singing and into the yard.
The pastors and honored male guests sit at a folding table/dais at the front and the women and children sit facing them. The pastors all carry bibles and most are dressed in old lab coats that serve as their robes. Most have vestments comprised of thick ropes hung around their necks and they carry scepters or staffs, some of which appeared to be old curtain rods with the finial left on one end. Others were well worn tree branches with knobby handles, were to me more impressive and may well have been knobkerries left over from the fight against Apartheid. The preaching and praying is very loud, in an angry tone and with points emphasized by slapping the scepter on the table. Holy water is sprinkled on the gathered with the frayed end of the rope vestment. From time to time a few lines of scripture are read and song breaks out spontaneously, the children and some of the adults getting up and dancing in a circle in a whirling fashion on the dusty dirt floor between the dais and the congregation. Drums appear and the entire celebration is accompanied by the rhythmic blowing of police whistles. The dancers often whirl themselves to the limits of balance and beyond. When the dust gets too bad, the here-to-for Holy water becomes a practical dust suppressant.
As I was an honored guest, I sat at the dais between the chairperson of my organization and one of the Pastors. That is, except when require to turn and kneel in the dirt to pray, which was often. I wanted to take pictures but when I enquired prior to the service had been asked not to. After about an hour and a half of this and after each pastor had had his turn, the honored guests who were not pastors were asked to say a few words. For an African, a few words may be a speech of anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour. Thankfully my chairperson went before me and after his ‘few words” gave me an introduction in Sepedi that was well beyond my capabilities. I greeted all those present in Sepedi and explained that I would speak in my native tongue. I then misquoted but accurately paraphrased Psalm 100 (Make a joyful noise unto the Lord all ye lands etc.) told all present what a joyful praising I saw there that night, wished them all success in the healing , wished all of them well, thanked them in Sepedi and sat down. I got a loud vote of appreciation, all of the pastors gleefully shook my hand and slapped my back and one of them expressed his wonder at how, unlike Africans, Americans can clearly and concisely make their point without a lot of unnecessary embellishment. You would have thought I had just delivered the Gettysburg Address. The service then continued as before in good old African fashion.
Thankfully, at about 1 or 1:30 my Chairperson, who had to leave for another event, was able to spirit me out of the tent and provide a ride home to get some rest. I only had to promise Daisy to return early the next morning to continue with the saving. As I left I could hear that the service was getting louder and louder with less preaching and more drumming, singing and dancing. When I returned at about 6 am the next morning, I could hear that the service still going on as I approached, but by the time I got there they had taken a break for some breakfast. Again, this was meat and pap, but this time it was muscle meat (my “good meat”). You must understand that the Africans must have learned how to cook from the British, or maybe it was the other way ‘round, and the cow is merely chopped into fist size pieces, bones and all, and boiled in a giant black pot over a wood fire with a little salt for flavor. Nada mas. Somewhat bland would be high praise. Instead of tea or coffee, all the men were drinking beer or home brew which is made from sorghum and is about the consistency of watery pea soup. This batch was almost a week old, considered well aged and received high praise. My host’s brother insisted that I drink with him and I had a pretty mellow buzz going by about 8am after three coffee cups full. I hung out talking and drinking home brew with the men until about 11am when the formal service was about to begin again in earnest. I was able to excuse myself at that point and returned home to go back to bed. I was amazed that I had no hangover when I awoke later in the day.
As I had been in Pretoria for a week it was my plan to wash my clothes on Sunday after I got up but there had been on water for a few days and there was none to spare that afternoon. I contented myself with laying out the plans for my garden in a plot graciously granted to me next to my “house”. I also began to collect the organic debris that I would be burying once I “double dug the “soil” to knee depth. The hard labor would start Monday after work. There are two things that I must find that will be crucial to the success of my effort, fencing to keep the chickens out as they will eat anything whether it be seeds or full grown plants, and a source of water. I am not sure that my grey water alone will be enough to sustain the effort once the rainy season is over. I am trying to time things so as to take full advantage of the season that generally includes the months of November, December and January. If I can get my hands on a couple of 55 gallon drums and can convince my home stay mom to give up the wood ash from her cooking fire, I might be able to set up a purification system and get the entire household to pitch in their bathwater. That might just be enough though the trees that now receive that water may suffer some.
The week of the 19th started in ordinary fashion for weeks following one of my Pretoria excursions, which is with mounds of typing and preparation for the days ahead. I have seen only minor success in my efforts to instill a sense of foresight and forethought so that the work is done well and with minimal surprises. Just as an example, our 46 carers were to turn in their monthly reports on the 22nd. When they do, they take new forms for the next month. These are 4 page forms and we do not have a copier with an operating feeder, so the pages have to be copied, collated and stapled by hand. They also take with them a form on which they record each patient visit and the activities undertaken. One form per patient times approximately 300 patients. Before I got there a staff member (of which there are only two that participate) would walk to the copier with each carer as she turned in her report and copy off the required forms in the midst of the staff sitting down with each carer to check that the forms were completed properly. This made the form turn in a whole day affair with carers sitting around waiting to get their forms. I have convinced the staff that it is much better to make the copies in the down time in the week before the carers come with their forms. All have agreed that this is far superior, but I am still the only one who will make the copies, and I am not yet convinced that if I don’t they won’t revert to the old system. One of my tasks on Monday was to start making the copies after typing the minutes from a Board meeting and a meeting between the board and the carers that had happened in my absence. Minutes have to be in English to meet the DOH mandate and the meeting notes that I get have to be”rectified”into that language by me. It will sometimes take hours to figure out what the notes mean and to give them a fair translation, that is without just making stuff up.
Tuesday was a day in the field for me accompanying the Coordinator in the assessment of carers in one of the remote villages, “Pudiakgopa”, which is about 10K from the office up a dirt road on the side of a mountain. This is another village that has no rational reason for being as there is no nearby commercial or agricultural employment. As I was told by my coordinator “it’s just a place for people to stay”. Though the views are lovely and the lots would be worth a fortune in the States, the village is one of the rougher spots socially and has very high HIV/AIDS and TB rates. Most of the Patients we visited suffer from both. The carers do DOTS (Direct Observation of Treatment) that is, they have to go to the patient’s home every day and watch them take their medication and go with them for their scheduled checkups at the clinic. Our assessment of the carers involves going with them as they make their rounds, observing that they do everything correctly, ascertaining that they know what to look for to spot problems that might arise like side effects of medications and contraindicated activities, like consuming alcohol while taking TB treatment, and then having a conference with the carer at the end of the day where we point out the shortcomings. We also query the patients about the carer’s regularity, attitude and punctuality. It took most of the day to finish half the patients of two carers. When I got back to the office it was much the same as the day before and I also had to start preparations for a Base Line Health Survey that the head of primary care at the clinic had asked that I do before she would assign a nurse to present at the workshop on HIV/AIDS that is my current Peace Corps project. This entailed designing, typing, printing and collating the two page questionnaire, recruiting 10 caress and some social workers from the local department of Social Development Office, mapping the survey area and assigning territories for each of the door to door questioners and a form for logging missed houses to be re-covered later and a work sheet for compiling the data once collected. I also had to work on one of the substantive tools for the workshop, a question and answer exposition of factual information about HIV and its prevention and treatment. Just another day at the office and no real rush since I had all week once the copies were made – right? Well hell no!
On Wednesday went I got to the office in my usual jeans and T shirt ready to hunker down on my project and getting ready for the end of month form flurry and got a funny look from the financial officer. “I think you better go home and change” was the message. “Change for what?” “Well the MEC (Member of the Executive Committee) is coming of course, and the Alzheimer’s Day event at the Stadium.” When she saw the quisling look on my face it dawned on her that no one had bothered to tell me about the visit or the event or that I was to be personally introduced to the dignitaries and have VIP status at the event. It was a sprint to the house to throw on the good suit and best tie, but I made it just as the Audis and BMWs with Gauteng plates bumped down the dirt road to our office. It all turned out fine and I met the dignitaries and sat in the VIP tent and ate better than average pap and nama at the Traditional Authority Hall. But, I didn’t make much headway on the office work I had planned to do. I was also approached by my favorite nurse from the clinic, and the one I was hoping would teach at my workshop, with good news that she had been promoted and would be leaving to take a high position at a clinic in a not so nearby community. Great for her, not so for me.
Thursday was madhouse form day and Friday we had a major meeting for the carers to go over ever mandated DOH changes of procedure. I was able to get enough volunteers for the survey, but the carers were just plain worn out by then and I decide to defer the English lesson that I had prepared for a later date. I like those to be fun and participatory and that was just not in us that day. I finally got a chance to wash clothes Friday afternoon but was late and had to leave them on the line until Saturday. They still weren’t dry in the morning when I had to make a quick run to town to do grocery shopping from which I returned at about 2pm. I got my clothes in and worked some on my gardening, hoping that I would be able to make a deal with the guy across the street Sunday morning to dig 5 or 6 wheelbarrow loads of manure from his kraal where he keeps about 10 head of cattle at night.
Sunday morning at about 8am I got a knock on my door. This was very unusual, and fortunately I was up and about. It was the youngest daughter – the “last born” as they say here – of my Home Stay family. “May I ask you a favor?” Thinking she needed to borrow something or play a video on my computer, which has happened before, I said I would be glad to help. “Would you paint the house? My wedding is next Saturday and my father said he would paint it but he hasn’t been able to. We can start now now.” (“Now” is used many ways in South Africa and can mean anything from never to immediately. “Now now” is commonly used to mean immediately.) We started painting about 30 minutes later and along with the bride to be and different brothers; I kept it up after work throughout the whole of the next week, working inside and out and mostly about 10 to 12 ft. up on a ladder since I was the only one around that was comfortable with the high work. By Friday, despite needing a second coat in spots, things were looking pretty good.
During the days, work was pretty typical except that we started the door to door survey Thursday morning, working throughout the day and until about noon on Friday. I worked alongside my social worker friend, Emelda, who will be teaching the parent – child communication portion of my workshop and is a great help to me. I went with her because she has a fear of dogs, of which there are many, and of some of the people in the village that she has had run-ins with professionally, since she investigates abuse reports as part of her job. It was great for me because I was able to listen while she conducted the interviews in Sepedi and look over her shoulder as she wrote the answers in English. She is also a very accomplished questioner and took to heart my request to the surveyors to press until the subjects ran out of answers. I think the Emelda will soon be leaving for greener pastures because she is too good for her job and not content within its boundaries. I hope she is around here at least until I leave as she is a great resource to have.
The wedding on Saturday was a traditional African wedding not the “white“ wedding described in my last post. This is an event where the family of the groom delivers the labola or bride price to the family of the bride and the bride is delivered into the family of her husband. The bride price is delivered in bits and pieces and the process of delivery slowly occurs. The bride appears shrouded in a heavy blanket which is removed bit by bit and the labola is paid. Under the blanket she is made up and dressed in her finest cloths, the prize inside the wrapper. Her fitness is judged by the parents, aunts and uncles of the groom and her parents, aunts and uncles are present to assure that she is fairly judged. If all goes well, the bride leaves her parent’s home to live with the groom and his family forever, returning to the home of her parents only as a visitor. It is both a joyous and solemn occasion.
As the wedding guests start arriving at 10 or 10:30, I left for a necessary trip to town on an early taxi that would get me there as the stores were opening at 9 so that I could get back by 11 or 11:30 at the very latest (based on my experience in this country, if something is supposed to start at 10 it will actually start 45 minutes to 90 minutes late). I had to go into town to buy a box of copy paper (5 reams) for my project some sandals as the heat was killing my feet wearing closed shoes and some groceries and libations. I also had agreed to pick up 5 dozen eggs to feed the guests who were staying at the house for the big event, which goes on for a day or two after the bride leaves. I was running pretty much on schedule when I became a victim of crime. I had the box of Paper in my left hand, carrying it by the plastic strap and my canvas duffel in my right hand carrying it by the handles, not over my shoulder. It was quite heavy and contained 4 bottles of liquid (2 glass and 2 plastic), my groceries and new shoes in their box.
At a point approximately 1 and 2/3 blocks before the Meat Spot a store where I was to buy the eggs, I was walking through heavy sidewalk traffic toward the center of the sidewalk slightly more toward the curb, when a thin African man, possibly 50 years old, in wrinkled white pants and shirt and wearing a white hat, brushed the box of paper with his left leg as he passed by me. It was no more a jostle than was typical trying to walk down those walks on a busy Saturday. I thought nothing of it, but a heavy set man standing to my right along the curb caught my eye and pointed behind me. I stopped and turned my head and saw the man who had brushed me leaning over holding his knee (the right or rather wrong one as I recall) and looking at me. I turned around and took a step toward him to see if there was any problem. He moved toward me showing no sign injury and extended his right hand as if wanting to shake mine. I slipped the strap of my bag up onto my forearm and reached to shake his hand as best I could. You never put your bags down on a crowded side walk as they have a good chance of not being there when you go to get them. He took my hand and started speaking in Afrikaans, which I do not understand. I used what little I have to try to tell him I did not speak Afrikaans. Still holding my hand, he became quite agitated and belligerent and then let go of my hand. He put his left hand on my right arm and back and started to throw his right knee into my groin and abdomen. I don’t know if it was because he was so thin or because he was just trying to demonstrate his moves to me, but the “blows” were of no real effect except to irritate me. He kept on yelling in Afrikaans and kneeing and I kept up trying to let him know “Nee Afrikaans pratt”. As he was doing his kneeing, I felt my wallet leave my right rear pocket and finally realized the set up. By this time I had dropped the box and my bag to the ground at my feet. I grabber the thin man by the shirt front and lifted and started yelling at him as loud as I could to give my wallet back. I saw him do something with the hand that had been behind my back. I thought he may have put something in his pocket so as I held him with my left hand I started trying unsuccessfully to search his pockets with my right and continued to yell at him to give my wallet back. As I was doing so, a large forearm crossed in front of me and deposited a black object in my shirt pocket that I soon recognized as my wallet. I grabbed it with my right hand and saw that it was my wallet and appeared to still have its meager contents. I let go of the thin man and he was gone. I did not see the heavy set man after I turned to look at the thin man. I did not see the person attached to the large forearm that put my wallet in my shirt pocket. The incident took only a minute or so. As I was unhurt and had all my property and was late to get back, I did not call the police and simply proceeded to the Meat Spot, purchased 60 eggs and crossed to the taxi rank. I arrived back in Bakenberg just about noon. The wallet that was taken is a semi dummy wallet. I have no usable bank or credit cards in it and usually do not carry more than 200 Rand ($25) in it. I had about 170 Rand ($20) in it at the time of the incident.
I was a little later than I had hoped getting back to the wedding. I missed the slaughter of the goat, but was in on the cooking and tasted all the “good parts” that were offered to me. The liver, which I actually did want to try, was reported as stolen by the dogs when the cook turned his back for a moment ala the turkey in Christmas Story, but I had a very pleasant time and was glad when they broke out the beer at about 4. I sure needed a drink but didn’t want to step on the rituals of the day. The party went on until early the next morning through some pretty spectacular thunder storms, and when I woke up about 9 the next morning it was still raining and the power was out. I decided that there really was no good reason to get up, so stayed in bed until late in the afternoon when the power finally came back on. Monday will start another week in Africa. Never a dull moment!